Looking for classic Ambiance Theme with borders and icons

I’m currently using this theme and its dark equivalent. I really like them, but I wish some things were different: Namely, borders. It’s really hard to resize a window that has a 1 pixel border. I’d like a theme that has them (or a theme manager that will let me add them; I’m currently using Mint’s and I’m not all that happy with it). Also, I’d like the program icon in the top left of the window, Windows-style.

Also, is there a way to switch between themes automatically? Like say I wanted Radiance during the morning, Ambiance in the afternoon, and Ambiance dark at night. Would there be a way to automate the switching?